Dear Twenty Something Post: Reflection from Smart Twenties Fear of Getting Older Post


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Just in case you didn’t know Sam of Smart Twenties is one of my inspirations for starting my Dear Twenty Something Series. Sam welcomed me in her Smart Twenties circle and I knew that after reading her blog I had to share a bit of my advice as a twenty something. Even though I’m in my late twenties (28) I know there are some things that I want to share with you. Sam’s blog is beyond amazing and every time I read it I get inspired. If you want to learn more about Smart Twenties click here.

Last week I was going through my blogfeed and I came across her post called, Some Thoughts on My Fear of Getting Older and I knew I had to read it immediately. When I entered my mid twenties getting older was something that I often thought about. I think it all started when I turned the BIG 25 aka The Quarter Century Life Crisis Age (so I’ve heard). When I turned 25 it was a bit rough, but I got through it. (I will talk about this in another twenty something post – stay tuned!) Fast forward some years later, as a late twenty something I’m actually super excited about turning 30. I’m ready to start a new phase of my life and leave my twenties with a bang! I want to do something BIG for my 30th birthday. I’m not sure yet. Any ideas?  Continue reading

Throwback Thursday: Spring Style Inspiration from 80’s/90’s TV Show Ladies


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Since spring is around the corner I was inspired to create a Polyvore set. When I was eating lunch the other day I had an idea to create a Polyvore set inspired by 80’s/90’s TV show ladies. I like looking at these types of sets from @WearWhatUWatch and I have to thank WearWhatUWatch for the inspiration when I did my first blog post like this. Thank you WearWhatUWatch :-)

If you have followed my blog for some time you know that I’m an 80’s baby! Woo hoo! 80’s babies rock! If you are an 80’s baby comment below. :-) Another good thing about the 80’s is that there were good TV shows on air. When I’m looking for something to watch I like watching comedies with a touch of drama sprinkled in. If you want to see what I’m watching check out my winter reading list with TV bonus list.

One of my favorite 80’s/90’s shows is a A Different World and for this style inspiration I wanted to showcase looks inspired from three hit TV ladies during this time: Whitley Gilbert from A Different World, Maxine Shaw from Living Single and Clair Huxtable from The Cosby Show. I know the 80’s and 90’s had some crazy style, but I thought it would be fun to put a spin on the looks with my personal style by creating a Polyvore set.

Throwback Thursday: Spring Style Inspiration from 80’/90’s TV Show Ladies:

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#DearME What Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self?


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To me the 20’s are an extension of your teenage age years. Same script different cast, well at least for the early part of the 20’s. I know some of you can relate to what I’m saying. All of the ups and downs that we face during our 20’s was one of the inspirations for me to start my dear twenty something series. Over the past few days I have watched a handful of #DearME videos from inspirational women on YouTube and I wanted to share my advice to my younger self.

Before I get started let me tell you about the #DearMe Initiative:

Today is International Women’s Day! In celebration of International Women’s Day, YouTube started a #DearMe global Initiative to inspire and empower young girls everywhere. I’m all for women empowerment and inspiring girls so I knew this was an opportunity for me to share my #DearME advice. These are the things I would tell my younger self:

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DIY Whipped Shea Butter Mix


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It has been a brutal polar vortex winter. Between the extreme freezing temperatures, black ice and snow it has been crazy. I’m so over winter! I want spring now! Since it has been really cold I have to take extra steps so my hair and skin are moisturized. As you may know I have thick naturally curly hair and it is dry by nature so in the winter I like to amp up my hair moisture and sealing routine. Shea butter is the perfect sealant to use for thick hair and good to use all year around. Plus this is a great DIY for the weekend. :-)

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Dear Twenty Something Series: Stop Comparing Yourself to Others


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All of us have compared ourselves to others at one point. We have to stop this! I remember when I was a teenager and in my early twenties sometimes I would find myself saying, “Why can I have what she has? or “When is it my turn?” This is not a good way to think. I had to change that. Over the years I have matured and learned from these ups and down. When I find myself comparing myself to others I tell myself to stop and pray :-)

Two weeks ago I was watching a video from Scandalous Beauty called Stop Comparing Yourself to Others Now. This was perfect timing because I was thinking about this topic for my Dear Twenty Something Series. Whenever you are feeling down or feel like someone has it better than you I urge you to STOP comparing yourself to others NOW!

We have to remember we are all special and created uniquely in God’s eyes. Realize your talents, find your passion and purpose in life. I think that sometimes when we find ourselves comparing ourselves with others we might actually be questioning what we want for ourselves. For example, if you are comparing yourself to someone who is fit and lives a healthy lifestyle don’t compare yourself. Instead use that as motivation (not to get to their fit level), but as motivation for you get fit on your own terms. You have to figure out what you want. Write it in your journal.

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others: Continue reading

Dove #LoveYourCurls: Confidence Starts at an Early Age – My Natural Curly Hair Story


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A few weeks ago I was watching a YouTube Video and I came across a video from Dove, #LoveYourCurls. Most of the time I don’t pay attention to the advertisement, but this one was quite different. The video shows different girls with all types of curly hair. They all had different reasons for not liking their hair: it was curly, frizzy, not straight, or different. It’s sad that something as simple as hair can make a big impact, especially with girls. We have to teach our sisters, cousins and daughters that their hair is beautiful – they are beautiful no matter what. At the end of the video their mothers, sisters and other girls started to show how much they love their curls. When the girls saw this they felt better about their curls.

Now is a good time for me to share My Natural Hair Curly Story.

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Using the Building the Best You: A Two-Year Discovery Journal


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Using the Building the Best You: A Two-Year Discovery Journal

I can’t believe we are now in February. It has been a polar vortex type of winter. On another note about a week ago I was watching Jouelzy’s video about How to Keep a Journal and I decided this was a good time for me to share how I’m enjoying my new multiple year journal. If you have followed me for some time you know I am a big fan of journals. Sometimes I buy journals or make them. Continue reading

Winter Style Inspiration: Colors and Texture


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Last year I shared my Fall and Spring Style Inspiration and I decided it was time for me to share my winter style inspiration. Since I don’t share outfit of the days (maybe I will in the future…hmm) I like doing these type of posts to share a glimpse of things I would wear. For the most part this winter has been polar vortex type of winter. I have played around with colors and texture to add a point of interest to my looks. As for outerwear I would pair my warm wool coat, lined gloves and a hat to keep me warm. What are you wearing this winter?

Winter Style Inspiration: Color and Texture:

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How to Look Better Tag by Shameless Maya:


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Today I want to share a bit of inspiration for you inspired by the one and only Shameless Maya on YouTube. I have watched Shameless Maya since she started her YouTube channel and it is amazing to see how much her channel has grown. She has an amazing spirit, represents all things positive and when I finish watching her videos I want to do more. If you watch her videos you will see that she is passionate about her craft and puts a lot of energy into her videos to make great content for her subscribers. I get excited when I see people like her. This is what I like to see — inspiration and women empowering each other. :-)

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My Winter Reading List + Bonus TV List (Polar Vortex Edition)


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So here we go again – Polar Vortex #2. I was hoping and praying that we would have a mild winter and then out of no where the temperatures began to drop. It’s so cold. Scratch that it’s freezing! No matter how warm I dress I’m still freezing. My face feels like a popsicle. Boo to you winter! Snow, snow go away! You won’t see me doing any outdoor winter activities. Nope! Instead you will find me at home curling up to a good book with some hot tea with my holiday onesie and fuzzy moccasin slippers. You get the picture.

Here’s What I’m Reading This Winter: Continue reading


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